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My husband and I got the book first and decided to get the dvd to make sure we were doing the techniques right. UPDATE: We have found that the underlying methods in this do work with our toddler, but we had to modify how we used it. Karp indicates in his book - even when she is in a rage of tantrum, maybe that's why this doesn't work for her - who knows. I really wish they would - the only thing we can get to work so far with our 2 1/4 year old is to ignore the tantrum and let her calm down before trying to communicate any further with her. Definitely try different approaches with the ideas from this method in mind if you don't find it working.
I guess it must work for some people. Also, our daughter communicates with us much above the level that Dr. Karp calls a "spirited" toddler and these methods just plain didn't work. All I can say is, the toddlerese just fuels our little one's fire and makes the tantrums even worse than they were to start with. We have what Dr.
Karp it has made some difference in our toddler's tantrums and behavior. Best wishes to all those that do try this though. For instance, our toddler doesn't appreciate the toddlerese, but the fast food method definitely works and with a little further guidance from Dr.
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